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I thought deciding whether to have children would feel like a lightning bolt. Instead, clarity arrived quietly, alongside relief, grief, and guilt.
I thought being low maintenance was a virtue. It turned out to be a habit with a name and a cost I could measure. Here is what I say instead of “it’s fine.”
I thought turning 39 would look more finished. Then I started questioning who created the timeline I believed I was failing, and whether the plan I inherited was ever something I consciously chose.
Going back to school, changing careers, starting over — big decisions deserve more than a gut call. Three steps for thinking it through without rushing yourself.
When you and your friends discuss the future, did you have everything planned out? Did you imagined life after college was going to be like an episode of “Sex and the City”? Caught up in the dream of adult life,...
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