How Should a Good Partner Make You Feel?

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In addition to your family, your significant other is one of the most important people in your life. This may be the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with. Your partner is not just a person you love, but your best friend as well. You may envision a long future with this person. As such, it is important to have a healthy relationship with a partner who genuinely makes you feel good. However, how can you tell if your partner is good for you? I am here to tell you the signs that you have a good partner.

One of the first signs of a good partner is that they actively listen to you. If you are unable to compromise with your partner, or they always tune you out when you have a point to make, it is not a healthy relationship. In order for your relationship to work, your partner must be willing to talk things out with you. You do not want to be with someone where everything is always one-sided, and they never try to see your point of view. You will be unhappier the longer you stay with this person. A partner should be able to work things out with you when you are upset, and they should care about your feelings. If they are not willing to do this, you may need to reconsider your relationship with them. 

Another sign of a good partner is that they make you feel safe, both physically and emotionally, when you are with them. It is not a good idea to be with someone who makes you feel anxious. Every time you see this person, you want to feel welcome and comfortable. The person should feel like your safe space when you are struggling. They should be supportive of your wants and needs. You may want to consider letting them go altogether if they do not make you feel safe. Having peace in your relationship is so important to your mental and physical health. 

Another important quality of a good partner is that they make you feel good about who you are on the inside. We are all insecure to some degree. Our partner is special because they love us despite our flaws. This is how they should feel about you, and vice versa. They should not constantly insult you and put you down. They should make you feel confident in who you are, and be supportive and uplifting. You deserve it! If your partner makes you feel unworthy, you should not be with them. 

Your partner is one of the most important people in your social circle. You should feel good about yourself when you are with them! Think about these signs before you rush into a deeper relationship. Don’t move forward with rose-colored glasses. In a relationship, you should consider these signs when choosing your partner. You need someone who will always be there for you no matter what. It is not fun to be in relationships where you have to please yourself constantly, and you feel alone. Look for these signs to find your ideal partner! 


Written by: Audre Arnett

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